Remarks by the First Lady – As Prepared for Delivery
Santa Fe Indian School 2016 Commencement Address
Good afternoon everyone. It is such a pleasure and an honor to be here with all of you today.
I want to start by thanking Hanna and Michael for that wonderful introduction, and I want to recognize all the other outstanding student leaders who are gracing us with their words today.
I also want to thank your Governors, Tribal Leaders, Elders and Board of Trustees along with your Principal, your Superintendent, your teachers and staff, the representatives from your Senators’ offices and all the Tewa dancers who performed for us here today.
And of course, to the class of 2016 – after so many long afternoons and late nights studying for exams and writing papers, after countless hours preparing to present your Senior Honors Projects to your communities, after all those jalapeno nachos you ate at the EAC, you did it. You made it and we are all so proud of you!
And today, I want you to take a moment to look around at all these beautiful people who helped you on your journey – your families and friends, everyone in your school and your communities – who pushed you and poured their love into you and believed in you, even when you didn’t believe in yourself.
Today is their day, too – so let’s give it up for your families and loved ones.
And that’s actually where I want to start today – with my own family – I want to tell you about the people who came before me and how they made me who I am today.
I am the great-great-granddaughter of Jim Robinson, who was born in South Carolina, lived as a slave and is likely buried in an unmarked grave on the plantation where he worked.
I am the great-granddaughter of Fraser Robinson, an illiterate houseboy who taught himself to read and became an entrepreneur – selling newspapers and shoes.
I am the granddaughter of Fraser Robinson Jr. who left the only life he’d ever known to move his family north, seeking a place where his children’s dreams wouldn’t be so limited by the color of their skin.
And I am the daughter of Fraser and Marian Robinson who raised me and my brother in a tiny apartment on the South Side of Chicago, just upstairs from my elderly great aunt and uncle, who my parents cared for and just blocks away from our extended family – grandparents, aunts and uncles, and cousins who were always in and out of each other’s homes and lives – sharing stories and food and talking and laughing together for hours.
And while my parents were products of segregated schools, and neither of them had an education past high school, they knew with every bone in their bodies that they wanted their kids to go to college.
That was their mission from the day we were born.
So my mother volunteered at our school so that she could make sure we were taking our studies seriously and my father worked as a pump operator at the city water plant, saving up every penny for our college tuition.
And even when my father was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis – a disease that affected his muscles and made it hard for him to walk and even dress himself in the morning – he hardly ever missed a day of work, no matter how sick he was, no matter how much pain he was in.
And let me tell you, I will never forget the look of pride on his face, and on my mom’s face, as I walked across the stage at Princeton University and Harvard Law School to accept my diplomas – degrees that have given me opportunities that my parents never could’ve dreamed for themselves.
So graduates, that is my story and I’m sharing this with you because I heard that when you were first brainstorming about who to invite to your commencement and someone suggested me or my husband, some of you thought that that was an impossible dream – that it just wasn’t realistic to think that people like us would ever visit a school like this one.
Well today, I want you to know that there is nowhere I would rather be than right here with all of you.
Because while I might have grown up across the country… and while my journey may be a bit different than yours, when I learned about all of you, it was clear to me that our stories are connected and that your values – the values that infuse this school – are the very same values that my parents handed down to me.
You see, I learned respect from how my parents cared for my great aunt and uncle – how my mother would wake up in the middle of the night to check on my great aunt, how my father would prop himself up against the bathroom sink each morning, leaning hard on his crutches, to give my great uncle a shave.
I learned integrity from my parents – that living a good life isn’t about being wealthy or powerful, it’s about being honest and doing what you say you’re going to do.
It’s about how you act when no one’s watching and whether you’re the same person on the outside as you are on the inside.
My parents also taught me about giving back – that when someone is sick, you show up with a home-cooked meal. When someone’s down on their luck, you quietly slip them whatever’s in your own wallet, even if you’re not doing so well yourself.
And finally, my parents – especially my dad – taught me about perseverance.
My dad had been an athlete his whole life – a swimmer and a boxer – but if he was frustrated or disappointed by his illness, he never let on.
He just woke up extra early each morning, slowly fastened each button on his uniform and eased himself down the steps, one leg at a time, to get to his job and provide for our family.
So graduates, I wanted to be here at your commencement because your values are my values – the values that have carried me all the way from the Southside of Chicago to where I am today, standing before you as First Lady of the United States.
I also wanted to be here because, your stories – your achievements and contributions – and the story of your school, inspire me.
As we all know, this school was founded as part of a deliberate, systematic effort to extinguish your cultures – to literally annihilate who you were and what you believed in.
But today, the Native languages that were once strictly forbidden here now echo through the hallways and in your dorm room conversations at night.
The traditions that this school was designed to destroy are now expressed in every square foot of this place – in the art on your walls, in the statue in your MSC building, in the Po Pay Day song and dance performances in your plaza, in the prayers and blessings that you offer in your heart room.
And the endless military drills and manual labor that those early students endured have been replaced by one of the best academic curriculums in the country, and over the years, you all have proudly represented this school in chess tournaments, science and robotics competitions, and every kind of internship and leadership conference imaginable and nearly all of you are going on to college, earning more than five million dollars in scholarships.
And whether you’re saying an ancient blessing over your hydroponically-grown crops or using cutting-edge computer technology to understand the biology and hydrology of your ancestral lands, every day at this school, you’ve been weaving together thousands of years of your heritage with the realities of your modern lives.
And all that preparation and hard work is so critically important, because make no mistake about it, you all are the next generation of leaders in your communities… and not years from now, or decades from now, but right now.
Through your Senior Honors Projects, you’ve already become experts on urgent issues like addiction, poverty, education, and economic development.
And so many of you have already stepped up to implement your projects in your communities, hosting a fun run to raise awareness about domestic violence and diabetes, leading a traditional foods cooking demonstration, supporting seniors and teen parents and doing so much more.
And, as you begin the next phase of your journey, please remember that your communities need even more of your energy and expertise. They need you to bring home additional knowledge and skills to more effectively address the challenges your communities face.
That’s why it is so important for all of you to hold fast to your goals and to push through any obstacles that may come your way.
And I guarantee that there will be obstacles.
For example, when you get to college or wherever else you’re going next, it will be a big adjustment – college was certainly a huge adjustment for me.
I had never lived away from my family for any length of time, so there were times when I felt lonely and overwhelmed during my freshman year.
And if that happens to you, I want you to keep pushing forward. I want you to reach out and ask for help.
No one gets through college alone – no one. I certainly didn’t.
So the minute you feel like you’re struggling, ask for help – seek out a professor you trust. Go to the writing center or the counseling center. Talk to older students who know the ropes and can give you some advice.
And if the first person you ask isn’t friendly or helpful, then ask a second person, and a third, and a fourth – just keep on asking until you get the answers you need to get back on track.
Because your communities need you – they need you to develop your potential and become who you are meant to be.
And more than ever before, our world needs you, too.
And you don’t need your First Lady to tell you that. All you have to do is tune into the news and you’ll see that right now, some of the loudest voices in our national conversation are saying things that go against every single one of the values that you’ve been living at this school.
They’re telling us that we should disrespect others because of who they are or where they come from or how they worship.
They’re telling us that we should be selfish – that folks who are struggling don’t deserve our help. That we should just take what we can from life and not worry about anyone else.
And they’re saying that it’s OK to keep harming our planet and using our land, our air, our water however we wish.
But graduates, you all know that those are not the values that shape good citizens. Those are not the values that build strong families, and communities, and nations.
So we desperately need your voices and your values in this conversation, reminding us that we are all interconnected, all obligated to treat one another with respect. To act with integrity. To give back to those in need.
Now I know that’s asking a lot of all of you, and I know that sometimes, all those obligations might feel like a heavy burden.
I also know that many of you have already faced – and overcome – challenges in your lives that most young people can’t even begin to imagine, challenges that have tested your courage, your confidence, your faith, and your trust.
But graduates, those struggles should never be a source of shame and they are certainly not a sign of weakness.
Just the opposite, those struggles are the source of your greatest strengths.
Because by facing adversity head on – and getting through it – you’ve gained wisdom and maturity beyond your years. You’ve developed resilience that will sustain you throughout your lives. You’ve deepened a well of compassion within yourselves that will help you connect with – and give back to – others who struggle.
And most of all, you have taken your place in the long line of those before you whose continued survival in the face of overwhelming threats should inspire you every day of your lives.
I’m talking about many of your ancestors who came together to lead a revolt, risking their lives to preserve their traditions.
I’m talking about your predecessors at this school who defied the rules by speaking their languages and running away to attend ceremonial dances back home.
And I’m talking about the leaders who reclaimed and reopened this school for you – rebuilding it in your image and the image of your communities.
All these people and so many others have worked so hard and sacrificed so much so that you could be sitting in these seats on this glorious day celebrating your graduation from this school.
And as we honor their legacy today, I’m reminded of how some of your communities have seeds that your ancestors have been planting and harvesting for thousands of years – long before America was even an idea.
And just as they have been blessing those crops and lovingly preserving those seeds through storms and droughts, struggles and upheavals, so that they could keep handing them down, generation after generation. So too have they handed down their wisdom, their values, and their dreams, fighting to save them in the face of unthinkable odds, spurred on by their devotion to those who came before them, and those who would come after them.
And graduates, today, all of that lives inside of you – all of that history, all of that sacrifice, all of that love.
And you all should feel so proud and so blessed to have the privilege of continuing that story.
Because with the education you’ve gotten from this school – and with the values that you have learned from your families and communities – your big, impossible dreams are actually just the right size and you have everything you need to achieve them.
And I know it won’t be easy. But standing here today with all of you, I am so filled with hope.
It’s the same hope I feel when I think about my own story – how my great-great grandfather was another man’s property, my great-grandfather was another man’s servant, my grandparents and parents felt the sting of segregation and discrimination.
But because they refused to be defined by anyone else’s idea of who they were and what they could be, because they held fast to their impossible dreams for themselves and their children, today, my two daughters wake up each morning in the White House.
And every day, I try my best to pass down to my girls that same love and that same dreaming spirit that Marian and Fraser Robinson passed down to me – that same love and spirit that your ancestors passed down to all of you and that you will pass on to your own children and grandchildren.
Because in the end, I believe that that is the true path of history in this country – it is long and it is winding and it can be very painful. But ultimately, it flows in the direction of hope, dignity, and justice because of people like you who stand up for your values, who stay true to who you are and where you’ve come from and who work every day to share the blessings you’ve had with others.
So graduates, in closing, I hope you will always remember your story and that you will carry your story with you as proudly as I carry mine.
I am so proud of all of you. I am so excited for you to continue your extraordinary journey and I cannot wait to see everything you will achieve and everything you will contribute to your communities and our world in the years to come.
Thank you so much, congratulations, and best of luck on the road ahead.